Friday, November 23, 2007
Friday, Bloody Friday
Well, it's that time of year again. That time of year where reasonably sane people - almost overwhelmingly of the female persuasion - completely lose their minds and set the human race back several thousands of years. That time of year is today - Black Friday.
Personally, I never liked the usage of the word "black" to denote anything negative. Call me racially sensitive or a complete idiot, but I never really cottoned to its usage. Actually, don't call me racially sensitive or any other kind of sensitive because the people who know me best know I am not the most politically correct person in the world. If you think about it, there's really nothing correct about politics at all. In fact, the notion of a two-party system has long outlived its usefulness....
Ok, now that I've driven that steaming pile of free-form nonsense off the cliff on Tangent Road, let me get back to my point. Black Friday is complete and utter ridiculouslessness on parade. Women camp out in front of department stores and malls all around the country like tie-dyed, shaggy haired neo-hippies waiting for Grateful Dead tickets to go on sale (yes, I am aware that Jerry Garcia died well over 10 years ago. Save the hate mail). Shivering and hostile, like Cold War-era Russians queuing up for potatoes and vodka, these maniacs are just suffering through the preamble before the doors are unlocked. That's when the real action starts.
Seeing as that I am a rational and level-headed idiot, I've never had the slightest desire to suffer through one of these retail feeding frenzies, so I'll just go on reports I've collected through the years, although I'm not above making stuff up just to make for better reading. Women, who spent hours in line filing their nails into razor-sharp weapons of death, start lunging at display tables, stepping over - and on - their competition, flinging helpless children to the side with mighty swipes of their paws. Helpless salespeople shiver in their chainmail armor or cower in corners as loud-mouth, wide-hipped Berthas come tear-assing through the Juniors Department to find something to fit their overly plump pre-teen daughters. Store security guards are easily overtaken by the bull rush of conspicuously-consumptive soccer moms hell-bent on getting the new Play Station - the very one that will be obsolete exactly 365 days from this very night. Like mother tigers training their young, divorced and unmarried 20-somethings are hurling their children into the toy section mosh pit, smiling proudly as their offspring pummels another child and rips the head off the latest craze in ugly dolls, thinking, "well, if my perfect child can't have it, nobody else's bastard child can have it!"
We men are simple creatures. We don't like to shop. Oh, we like to buy, but buying is a brief walk into the store, grabbing what we like, easing our way to the register and getting the hell out of there - all without breaking stride. Try things on? Absolutely not. We know what fits and what doesn't already. We're not trying to fool ourselves into thinking, "If I lose 10 pounds, I'll look great in this." No, all we care about is if it covers our ass crack when we bend over - and that's only if we REALLY care a LOT. Don't go throwing those metro-sexual guys in my face, either. We both know they are not really men; they're more like the bigfoot of men - the missing link between genders, just like women who can belch as long and loud as a water buffalo's fart. If we bring home clothing that doesn't fit us, we just say, "the hell with it" and toss it into the bottom dresser drawer with the unpaired socks, cardboard shirt collars and the Victoria Secret catalog we stole from our neighbor's mailbox five years ago.
But, back to the animals.
For some reason, these people cling desperately to the misguided notion that the customer is always right. Well, having worked in the service industry before, I can tell you one thing - the customer is not always right. More often than not, the customer is a freaking idiot. Except for the fem-bot perfume Nazis, most salespeople are scared to death of these cut-throat blowhards who demand they produce an item that sold out in five seconds with a wave of their plastic name tags. Unless someone has a name tag that says "Merlin" on it, just wait until the following week when you can buy the same damned thing for maybe 5% more money. It's like these lunatics declared Manifest Destiny with their holiday shopping lists and would rip your still-beating heart out of your rib cage if they think it could get them the last item left on the shelf.
This brings me to one of the chief instigators to this orgy of de-evolution - the "hot" gift. Allow me to rattle off a few to you and let me know if you are among the guilty who has committed the sin of adding to this insanity. In no particular chronological order:
Tickle Me Elmo - What in God's name was behind this nonsense? First of all, Elmo will never be a real Muppet in my eyes because he wasn't around in the 1970s when the Muppets were actually hip, cool and relevant. Second of all, Elmo is a fruit. I have nothing against people of alternative lifestyles, but even Rip Taylor would say Elmo is an over-the-top flamer. He's a wimpy nancy-boy who has directly contributed to the softening of an entire generation of kids who are coddled and suffocated by parents who think the Cookie Monster will irreparably harm their little angels because he likes Oreos. Yes, those same parents who think nothing of the dozens and dozens of Happy Meals and snack cakes they give their kids are worried about the Cookie Monster. These are the same idiot parents who want to take scoring out of youth games because it promotes competition and losing don't even consider for a second that it also promotes accomplishment, teamwork and sportsmanship and that life is all about losing and overcoming your losses. As the prophet George Carlin once remarked, "your kid is AVERAGE at best. There are some really smart ones, some really dumb ones and whole hell of a lot that are just AVERAGE." Once these idiot parents realize their kid has an outstanding chance of being average like the rest of us, maybe the kid can lead a healthy, well-adjusted life. But, back to Elmo. A "Tickle Me" doll? Does anyone else find this creepy besides me? It sounds one step away from the "Anatomically-Correct Creepy Uncle Phil Doll."
The Furby - Oh, they're soft and cute and look like the precious relatives of Gizmo from that Gremlins movie, and they can also apparently communicate with people. Personally, I think the people who snatched up this toy like free mints at the T.G.I.Fridays were more in love with the soft, fluffy name of this abomination than anything else. Apparently, Furbies were banned from many government workplaces because they could be used to record sensitive information. I can just see the new James Bond movie about this one: The Man With the Golden Furby, Live and Let Furby or The Furby Who Loved Me. It's basically a smart tape recorder plunged into a fricking teddy bear. Morons.
Beanie Babies - Bean bags. Shaped like animals. Fat women obsessed with bean bags shaped like animals. 'Nuff said.
Cabbage Patch Dolls - One of the pioneers of the hot gift craze, these abominations were about as ugly as your grandmother's feet. When future anthropologists unearth the shattered remains of our society hundreds of years from now, they'll uncover one of the dirtiest and shameful secrets of the 20th century in how the whole Cabbage Patch Doll mania practically brought America to its knees. For those who may read this decades from now, let me give you a brief description of what they looked like. Imagine a gigantic pierogi with fat arms and legs and yarn hair combined with a creepy small face and dimples riveted into place. Now imagine them with some equally-creepy birth certificates and adoption papers. I have to stop here because I'm getting a little spooked out.
Play Station 3 - These over-priced video game conveyance systems were selling for thousands of dollars on online auction sites within hours of their debut. Someone help me out here, but, I know, having been a kid for a decent part of my life, if I received this gift in January or February when my parents could have paid the normal retail price, I wouldn't throw myself into the path of a city bus or write some nihilistic death poetry on my MySpace page because I received it a month or two after someone's desperately-hip parent bought it for my friend for the holidays. You see, people are basically idiots when it comes to stuff like this.
Hey, call me crazy, call me handsome, call me one sexy beast, just don't call me from the Emergency Room because you voluntarily wandered into the war zone. But, if you ARE going out on Black Friday, well, at least pick me up something nice.
Wednesday, October 31, 2007
Shalloween
Today is Halloween. Of course, if you're reading this after the day it was written, today is whatever day it says on your calendar. This is my favorite time of year and October is my favorite month. The smell of burning leaves, kids dressing in costume and sports fans across America screaming at their football teams to go for it on fourth down. Halloween was always a magical time of year where you could dress as the most foul, gruesome disgusting creatures by the very same mothers who made you stand in the corner for getting mud on your new shoes.
I remember there was a certain electricity in the air as Halloween night came closer. It was indescribable and exhilarating, like dipping hot McDonald's french fries into a cold vanilla milkshake. Children across the land would do the pee-pee dance anxiously awaiting the moment they could step into their costumes, pose for various pictures with friends and family members and await the parental warnings of not opening their candy before it could be inspected by mom or dad first. Someone always had a horror story of a razor blade apples, LSD-laced lollipops or stale peanut chews to strike the appropriate amount of doubt in a kid's mind about digging in before mom and dad could inspect it first. Now, I'd like to take this opportunity to add both my parents inspected my candy. Mom would check for opened wrappers while dad would check for whatever candy he liked and then steal into the shadows to devour my Butterfingers bars. Did I mention they were "bars"? Yes, back in my day, people actually gave us actual-sized candy bars. Today, kids get those fraudulent "fun size" candies. I don't know about you, but a 1/2 ounce piece of candy is about as much fun as peeing in the shower - it initially feels good until you realize what a disgusting pig you are.
Like most kids who grew up in the late 60s and 70s, my costumes had three phases:
First phase: You would go to the local dry goods store and pick out a large square box with the flimsiest cellophane window - which was usually already punctured by the time your bitching and complaining finally motivated your mom to get your costume. Inside would be a cheap plastic mask of a superhero, monster or something even more hideous - a Disney character. These frail little jobbies had an elastic string that attached to either side of the mask by sharp, perpendicular metal endings which always broke before Halloween night, and would snap violently like Chinese martial arts weapons. You could always tell the next school day who wore these costumes. The deep cheek gouges would give them away. Beneath the mask was a pathetic little rayon or polyester "suit" that only reached your knees and tied in the back like an ill-fitting hospital gown. My biggest complaint was that when I wore a batman mask, I wanted a suit that looked like Batman's suit. Oh no. Instead, there was some low-rent picture of Batman and Robin sporting creepy smiles like light-loafered cheese-eaters. As an adult, I have no problem with people and their sexual preferences, but at six years old, I wasn't very self-actualized.
Second phase: Mom was too tired of shelling out good money for the el cheapo costumes so she decided to either make something for you or cobble something together from clothes she was getting ready to burn in the backyard anyway. This was the height of Halloween costume creativity. Once, my mom made my brother Dave and I pirate costumes. Dave was the captain, so I guess that made me the Gilligan pirate. Dad made a super-cool hook for my brother, but he made me a cutlass - both out of real metal. When we did the Halloween costume parade in school, no one even took a second notice to the fact that I was carrying a dangerous weapon and could have aced my teacher right there on the spot. I should have ransomed the other kids for their lunch money. One Halloween, my mom actually came to ME and said she had a great idea for a costume - I was going to be a mummy. To that point, I hadn't ever dressed as a monster, so images of stealing souls, summoning sand storms and one day having Brendan Fraser star in two movies about my awesomeness filled my head. Long story short, I was a few safety pins short of making a complete circuit around the block. I kept getting snagged on bushes and branches and it looked like I toilet papered my entire street. By the time I made it home, I was completely naked. Mummies don't wear underpants.
Third phase: By this time, it's all about the candy and torturing the younger kids. Dave and I would go out as bums or car crash victims without ever having to get into costume. One year, we didn't even put THAT much effort into it. We would ring the doorbell of a house and someone would answer with a bowl of candy and ask where our costumes were. I would say, "Oh, I'm him and he's me." Unimpressed by our ingenuity, they would slam the door in our faces so we had absolutely no choice but to kick in the heads of their jack-o-lanterns and high tail it out of there.
Oftentimes, I would go trick-or-treating with my best friend, Ray. If you don't know about Ray from my other stories, suffice to say even Satan himself would cross to the other side of the street if Ray was coming towards him. Ray and I were responsible for roughly 99% of the mischief that happened in our neighborhood, but that's another story for another time. In the late 70s/early 80s, designers came up with costumes that had large inflatable heads, such as aliens, animals and Ben Affleck. You could always tell which street we were on by the mobs of screaming kids as Ray and I chased them down with safety pins to pop their costumes. Back then, parents didn't walk their kids around, they just sent them out with their friends while they stayed home, played cards with friends and had quick gropes with their neighbors while waiting for the bathroom. We would always find the kids with best costumes and follow them around. When the door opened, we would push the little kid to the front. Invariably, it was a woman who answered and would squeal about how cute the kid looked and wanted to show her guests the costume the kid was wearing. Then, she would pivot, look back and say, "There's the bowl. Only take ONE piece of candy!" After she turned back around, Ray would grab the bowl, run out the door with it, dump half of the candy into my bag, half into his and toss the bowl back onto the lawn. Good times.
Today, it's all about product and profit. I knew summer was over the horizon in April when Halloween candy displays appeared in the drugstores before kids had a chance to bite the ears off their chocolate Easter bunnies. Candy bars are now 1/8th of the size they used to be and Hollywood doesn't green light a kid's movie without tying it up in some merchandising with Halloween. Look, God bless Harry Potter books and movies. I truly enjoy them, I really do, but if I see an entire gaggle of Hogwarts students at my door, I might just projectile vomit over their nice, expensive costumes then watch them battle to the death on my lawn as I lob a mini Snickers into the air.
I guess they ARE fun sized after all.
I remember there was a certain electricity in the air as Halloween night came closer. It was indescribable and exhilarating, like dipping hot McDonald's french fries into a cold vanilla milkshake. Children across the land would do the pee-pee dance anxiously awaiting the moment they could step into their costumes, pose for various pictures with friends and family members and await the parental warnings of not opening their candy before it could be inspected by mom or dad first. Someone always had a horror story of a razor blade apples, LSD-laced lollipops or stale peanut chews to strike the appropriate amount of doubt in a kid's mind about digging in before mom and dad could inspect it first. Now, I'd like to take this opportunity to add both my parents inspected my candy. Mom would check for opened wrappers while dad would check for whatever candy he liked and then steal into the shadows to devour my Butterfingers bars. Did I mention they were "bars"? Yes, back in my day, people actually gave us actual-sized candy bars. Today, kids get those fraudulent "fun size" candies. I don't know about you, but a 1/2 ounce piece of candy is about as much fun as peeing in the shower - it initially feels good until you realize what a disgusting pig you are.
Like most kids who grew up in the late 60s and 70s, my costumes had three phases:
First phase: You would go to the local dry goods store and pick out a large square box with the flimsiest cellophane window - which was usually already punctured by the time your bitching and complaining finally motivated your mom to get your costume. Inside would be a cheap plastic mask of a superhero, monster or something even more hideous - a Disney character. These frail little jobbies had an elastic string that attached to either side of the mask by sharp, perpendicular metal endings which always broke before Halloween night, and would snap violently like Chinese martial arts weapons. You could always tell the next school day who wore these costumes. The deep cheek gouges would give them away. Beneath the mask was a pathetic little rayon or polyester "suit" that only reached your knees and tied in the back like an ill-fitting hospital gown. My biggest complaint was that when I wore a batman mask, I wanted a suit that looked like Batman's suit. Oh no. Instead, there was some low-rent picture of Batman and Robin sporting creepy smiles like light-loafered cheese-eaters. As an adult, I have no problem with people and their sexual preferences, but at six years old, I wasn't very self-actualized.
Second phase: Mom was too tired of shelling out good money for the el cheapo costumes so she decided to either make something for you or cobble something together from clothes she was getting ready to burn in the backyard anyway. This was the height of Halloween costume creativity. Once, my mom made my brother Dave and I pirate costumes. Dave was the captain, so I guess that made me the Gilligan pirate. Dad made a super-cool hook for my brother, but he made me a cutlass - both out of real metal. When we did the Halloween costume parade in school, no one even took a second notice to the fact that I was carrying a dangerous weapon and could have aced my teacher right there on the spot. I should have ransomed the other kids for their lunch money. One Halloween, my mom actually came to ME and said she had a great idea for a costume - I was going to be a mummy. To that point, I hadn't ever dressed as a monster, so images of stealing souls, summoning sand storms and one day having Brendan Fraser star in two movies about my awesomeness filled my head. Long story short, I was a few safety pins short of making a complete circuit around the block. I kept getting snagged on bushes and branches and it looked like I toilet papered my entire street. By the time I made it home, I was completely naked. Mummies don't wear underpants.
Third phase: By this time, it's all about the candy and torturing the younger kids. Dave and I would go out as bums or car crash victims without ever having to get into costume. One year, we didn't even put THAT much effort into it. We would ring the doorbell of a house and someone would answer with a bowl of candy and ask where our costumes were. I would say, "Oh, I'm him and he's me." Unimpressed by our ingenuity, they would slam the door in our faces so we had absolutely no choice but to kick in the heads of their jack-o-lanterns and high tail it out of there.
Oftentimes, I would go trick-or-treating with my best friend, Ray. If you don't know about Ray from my other stories, suffice to say even Satan himself would cross to the other side of the street if Ray was coming towards him. Ray and I were responsible for roughly 99% of the mischief that happened in our neighborhood, but that's another story for another time. In the late 70s/early 80s, designers came up with costumes that had large inflatable heads, such as aliens, animals and Ben Affleck. You could always tell which street we were on by the mobs of screaming kids as Ray and I chased them down with safety pins to pop their costumes. Back then, parents didn't walk their kids around, they just sent them out with their friends while they stayed home, played cards with friends and had quick gropes with their neighbors while waiting for the bathroom. We would always find the kids with best costumes and follow them around. When the door opened, we would push the little kid to the front. Invariably, it was a woman who answered and would squeal about how cute the kid looked and wanted to show her guests the costume the kid was wearing. Then, she would pivot, look back and say, "There's the bowl. Only take ONE piece of candy!" After she turned back around, Ray would grab the bowl, run out the door with it, dump half of the candy into my bag, half into his and toss the bowl back onto the lawn. Good times.
Today, it's all about product and profit. I knew summer was over the horizon in April when Halloween candy displays appeared in the drugstores before kids had a chance to bite the ears off their chocolate Easter bunnies. Candy bars are now 1/8th of the size they used to be and Hollywood doesn't green light a kid's movie without tying it up in some merchandising with Halloween. Look, God bless Harry Potter books and movies. I truly enjoy them, I really do, but if I see an entire gaggle of Hogwarts students at my door, I might just projectile vomit over their nice, expensive costumes then watch them battle to the death on my lawn as I lob a mini Snickers into the air.
I guess they ARE fun sized after all.
Saturday, September 29, 2007
Smell Ya Later
I smell. Now before you get the wrong idea, I'm not saying I stink - but, then again, I'm not saying I don't. What I mean is that I have a very sensitive nose. I can tell the age of a person sitting four rows behind me in the movie theater without ever having to turn around by how they smell. I can smell one-billionth of an ounce of cumin in a swimming pool-sized vat of tomato sauce. I can tell what someone had for lunch three days ago by the lingering stench of a fart they left on an elevator that I am unfortunate enough to step into.
Look, I don't want to have a sensitive nose - I just do. It seems every time I'm on an airplane some elderly woman with big dew-drop glasses and polyester pant suit squeezes herself into the seat next to me wearing the unholiest of perfumes. You know the type of woman I'm talking about - the one who wants to know every detail of your miserable life before she explodes into every detail of HER miserable life. They always seem to wear the cheapest of perfumes, which brings us to the math portion of the program:
If perfume (X) is cheap and pungent (Y), the more that person will drench themselves in it (Z).
X + Y = Z x 100
Okay, pencils down. It's not only annoying, it's downright unhealthy for the rest of us. The stench is so thick it almost takes the form of a solid and wrestles my nose into a half-nelson. I have actually asked to be moved to another seat on the plane because a woman's perfume was physically attacking me. I'd rather be stuck under the bus seat of two overweight gassy Packers fans on a cross-country trip home from a chili festival. Now, before you think of me as an age-discriminatory guy, I have news for you. Women of ALL ages are guilty of this. Don't get me wrong, I didn't say all WOMEN are guilty of this, but women of all ages, so please call off the dogs, Rosie O'Donnell and Jeanine Garafalo. I'm constantly bombarded by perfumes with names such as Adultress, Prick Tease and In Your Dreams, Loser. Don't even get me started on Patchouli oil, which smells like sweat from the crotch of a desert-dwelling hippie.
Hey, guys, you can stop high-fiving each other, because we (collectively) are no better. I can't exactly describe to you what Grey Flannel smells like, but every guy in the dorms my freshman year was provided a little vial of it in our welcome kits and it was applied liberally. The aroma would be so thick the walls and ceiling would be sweating that stuff. Even smells I genuinely did not mind, like Polo and Halston bring back images of drinking and vomiting (and drinking some more) binges. You see, the olfactory (get the dictionary. I'll wait.) sense is the one most tied to memory. Ever smell your grandmother's house? You'll never forget that smell for the rest of your life. I've been brought to my knees by the smell of spaghetti sauce that smelled just like hers. I've smelled perfume on strangers that old girlfriends wore, and it's taken 5-6 decent-sized people to keep me from tearing out that poor woman's throat.
I've been told there are five main scents that turn on a woman: cucumber, lavender, pumpkin, vanilla and melon. Your mileage may vary. Personally, I'll save the expensive colognes for the weekend Romeos. Just give me five minutes to roll around in the produce aisle. I live in fear that an old Bugs Bunny cartoon will prove prophetic where Smellavision will replace television. I'd never be able to watch an episode of "Murder, She Wrote" or "Golden Girls" (not that I have anyway, but one likes to have their bases covered). I don't like scented shampoos, soaps or toilet paper. I like my deodorant to be void of anything that would twitch my nose hairs. It's not easy, with commercials showing scantily-dressed bimbos throwing themselves at men, legs thrown wide like a bag of chips opened by a preteen. The marketing arms of these companies try to hook you into buying their smells with names like Chest Hair, Deep Thrust and Infinite Bulge. What self-respecting man wouldn't genuflect at the altar of manhood validation after all that?
This man, that's who. I have no problem with people who don't want to breathe second-hand smoke. For me, breathing second-hand perfume and cologne is no better. It's like walking into a spider web, face-first, and no matter how many desperate waves of the hand and body gyrations later, it's still with you. The only difference is you're not doing that jump-rope hop and finger wiggle trying to get that spider off you. The very same spider that's still sitting in the remaining part of its web thinking, "What an idiot."
Have you ever smelled food and knew exactly how it would taste? I know I have. As has been documented before, my mother tried to get me to eat sweet potatoes once (or was it candied yams? No matter, they're the same to me). I mentioned before I thought sweet potatoes smelled like the boys bathroom of a condemned middle school. I KNEW how they were going to taste by the mere smell of them. Long story short, I took the smallest of bites and projectile vomited all over the table. I have a simple rule of thumb when it comes to food: if it smells like ass, it tastes like ass. That goes for all food. You could make a dinner of candied warthog anus, and if smells good, chances are I'll be back for seconds. Steak, which is one of my favorite foods, is pretty hard to foul up. Once, I had a steak delivered to me in a diner (yeah, I know, it was steak from a diner. I should have known better) and it smelled like crotch. I couldn't eat it. When I was paying my tab, I caught a look at the cook who had a very satisfied look on his face. It's a good thing I didn't order the Cream of Broccoli soup.
Ah, what's it all matter anyway? You're still going to wear you colognes and perfumes. You're still going to sit next to me on the plane and fart on my elevator. I'm still going to bitch about it and you're not going to care. Believe me, I know what you're going to do.
I have a nose for these things.
.
Look, I don't want to have a sensitive nose - I just do. It seems every time I'm on an airplane some elderly woman with big dew-drop glasses and polyester pant suit squeezes herself into the seat next to me wearing the unholiest of perfumes. You know the type of woman I'm talking about - the one who wants to know every detail of your miserable life before she explodes into every detail of HER miserable life. They always seem to wear the cheapest of perfumes, which brings us to the math portion of the program:
If perfume (X) is cheap and pungent (Y), the more that person will drench themselves in it (Z).
X + Y = Z x 100
Okay, pencils down. It's not only annoying, it's downright unhealthy for the rest of us. The stench is so thick it almost takes the form of a solid and wrestles my nose into a half-nelson. I have actually asked to be moved to another seat on the plane because a woman's perfume was physically attacking me. I'd rather be stuck under the bus seat of two overweight gassy Packers fans on a cross-country trip home from a chili festival. Now, before you think of me as an age-discriminatory guy, I have news for you. Women of ALL ages are guilty of this. Don't get me wrong, I didn't say all WOMEN are guilty of this, but women of all ages, so please call off the dogs, Rosie O'Donnell and Jeanine Garafalo. I'm constantly bombarded by perfumes with names such as Adultress, Prick Tease and In Your Dreams, Loser. Don't even get me started on Patchouli oil, which smells like sweat from the crotch of a desert-dwelling hippie.
Hey, guys, you can stop high-fiving each other, because we (collectively) are no better. I can't exactly describe to you what Grey Flannel smells like, but every guy in the dorms my freshman year was provided a little vial of it in our welcome kits and it was applied liberally. The aroma would be so thick the walls and ceiling would be sweating that stuff. Even smells I genuinely did not mind, like Polo and Halston bring back images of drinking and vomiting (and drinking some more) binges. You see, the olfactory (get the dictionary. I'll wait.) sense is the one most tied to memory. Ever smell your grandmother's house? You'll never forget that smell for the rest of your life. I've been brought to my knees by the smell of spaghetti sauce that smelled just like hers. I've smelled perfume on strangers that old girlfriends wore, and it's taken 5-6 decent-sized people to keep me from tearing out that poor woman's throat.
I've been told there are five main scents that turn on a woman: cucumber, lavender, pumpkin, vanilla and melon. Your mileage may vary. Personally, I'll save the expensive colognes for the weekend Romeos. Just give me five minutes to roll around in the produce aisle. I live in fear that an old Bugs Bunny cartoon will prove prophetic where Smellavision will replace television. I'd never be able to watch an episode of "Murder, She Wrote" or "Golden Girls" (not that I have anyway, but one likes to have their bases covered). I don't like scented shampoos, soaps or toilet paper. I like my deodorant to be void of anything that would twitch my nose hairs. It's not easy, with commercials showing scantily-dressed bimbos throwing themselves at men, legs thrown wide like a bag of chips opened by a preteen. The marketing arms of these companies try to hook you into buying their smells with names like Chest Hair, Deep Thrust and Infinite Bulge. What self-respecting man wouldn't genuflect at the altar of manhood validation after all that?
This man, that's who. I have no problem with people who don't want to breathe second-hand smoke. For me, breathing second-hand perfume and cologne is no better. It's like walking into a spider web, face-first, and no matter how many desperate waves of the hand and body gyrations later, it's still with you. The only difference is you're not doing that jump-rope hop and finger wiggle trying to get that spider off you. The very same spider that's still sitting in the remaining part of its web thinking, "What an idiot."
Have you ever smelled food and knew exactly how it would taste? I know I have. As has been documented before, my mother tried to get me to eat sweet potatoes once (or was it candied yams? No matter, they're the same to me). I mentioned before I thought sweet potatoes smelled like the boys bathroom of a condemned middle school. I KNEW how they were going to taste by the mere smell of them. Long story short, I took the smallest of bites and projectile vomited all over the table. I have a simple rule of thumb when it comes to food: if it smells like ass, it tastes like ass. That goes for all food. You could make a dinner of candied warthog anus, and if smells good, chances are I'll be back for seconds. Steak, which is one of my favorite foods, is pretty hard to foul up. Once, I had a steak delivered to me in a diner (yeah, I know, it was steak from a diner. I should have known better) and it smelled like crotch. I couldn't eat it. When I was paying my tab, I caught a look at the cook who had a very satisfied look on his face. It's a good thing I didn't order the Cream of Broccoli soup.
Ah, what's it all matter anyway? You're still going to wear you colognes and perfumes. You're still going to sit next to me on the plane and fart on my elevator. I'm still going to bitch about it and you're not going to care. Believe me, I know what you're going to do.
I have a nose for these things.
.
Wednesday, August 01, 2007
Personal Growth
I was chowing down on a particularly uneventful turkey burger at lunch today. Fittingly, I was reading USA Today - a fast food paper if ever there was one when I stumbled upon an essay by a writer who shall remain nameless. Anyhow, he was writing about mustaches and their mysterious absence from society at large - relatively speaking. After reading the article, I sat back, chewing blankly and without purpose when I realized I had something to say about this topic. I just hated that the idea had to come from McPaper. Oh well, some people read tea leaves while others read bird droppings for inspiration. I took what is used to line the cages that collects those bird droppings and sought to bring it to a higher purpose.
First, let me say that I have nothing against facial hair. On some people, it completes their face. Have you ever seen someone who had a mustache and/or beard for a long, long time and then one day, it's gone? You know it's them, but half their face is missing. Suddenly, you start to panic and look for the nearest exit while cramming handfuls of Xanax down your throat like they were Skittles. Facial hair gave their heads balance. It's a bit unnerving discovering behind that mighty Zeus beard hides a chin as small, soft and weak as a hamster's ass. My father has such a beard. When it's in full bloom, he looks like the second coming of Ernest Hemingway - full of masculinity and windblown fury. Slap a turtleneck on him and plop him down on a barstool in a seedy Key West dive and even the natives would call him "Papa". When he had the audacity to shave it off one time, he looked like Gepeto - and I don't care how many tattoos, Harleys or enemies's bones you have littering the front yard, Gepeto is about as intimidating as a marshmallow peep.
My family has always had an easy time growing facial hair - even the women (well, not you, Mom, since I know you'll be reading this). My brother, Dave, starting working on his mustache in second grade. I had a more difficult time, as it took years of “pressing it in” and holding up a comb under my nose to see how irresistible I would look with a thick hedge of black hair over my lip. Finally, the day came and I experimented with all manner of facial grooming. Eventually, I settled on the goatee, which, even then, I knew looked ridiculous. My goatee looked like the aftermath of eating a chocolate pudding cup with my hands tied behind my back. Besides, only two types of people wear goatees anymore – bad ass biker types who would just as soon use their grandmother’s asshole as a bottle opener as they would the gaping eye socket of their best friend, and guys who hang around comic book stores, wearing ponytails, memorizing scratching habits of tertiary characters from Star Trek: Deep Space Nine while stuffing an 8-pack of chimichangas down their gullets.
So, if you’ll humor me, I’d like to pay tribute to that guy-est of guy things – facial hair:
Well, we have to start someplace, I guess. For the man who has everything, including comically weird hair and wants to finish off his look with a maw covered in what looks like possessed cotton candy, this dandy little number will have the dinner guests whispering into their whiskey sours and checking their watches. As an added bonus, for those with a modicum of athleticism, you can stand on your head and do an impression of Don King.
Go ahead! I’ll let you write this one.
You’re suave! You’re cool! You’re unable to raise your eyelids more than a few millimeters. When you tap your filterless Lucky Strike on your gold cigarette case, the room knows you mean business. Bartenders the world over know what you’re drinking as soon as you glide into the room. You favor women in long evening gowns and feathered boas, grabbing them around the waist, pulling them tight and calling them “dames”. You’re a high roller and you pack a mean left. Then you go home to your mom’s basement, order a pizza and play video games until dawn.
For the man who has nothing – and likes it that way. Be the first – and likely only – person on your block to sport the Amish corona. Stride confidently through the farmer’s market and raise a barn or two before 8 a.m. It’s just another day in the life for you. Whether your name is Jebediah, Zachariah, Jeremiah or Bucky, this is the look for you.
For old school porn fans, nothing beats the glory ‘stache of the infamous Harry Reems. Well, old
Harry has been long forgotten, but his lip hair lives on in the exquisitely styled Tom Selleck offering. Spend hours getting your hair just right? Well, if your hair is who you are, why not accessorize it a bit? Be the talk of the dance floor at the gay disco as you boogie to the sounds of Donna Summer. With a single nod of the head and a gleam in your eye, there’ll be no mistaking that you’re a “top” as you wiggle your bottom.
So, there you are. You just struck out the side and now it’s time for some domestic beer and ball-scratchin’ in the clubhouse. A few tokes from a joint in the trainer’s room and 15 minutes later, your Maserati is kicking up roostertails of gravel in the parking lot while Jimi Hendrix sings “Stone Free” from the 8-track. Then, it’s an evening of tequila and shooting birds in the backyard while your old lady, in a methamphetamine daze moans, “Baby, come back to bed” before she vomits into the top drawer of the nightstand. Not for the faint of heart or the boring.
Well, some guys have all the luck. If you are one of those “all-or-nothing” guys, you can’t go wrong here. They’ll be howling from here to London when they see you easing down the street with a massive explosion of testosterone on your face. Bags under the eyes? Gone! Acne? Fuggetaboudit! The moon is always full as folks come up to you and tell you how much they loved you in those Geico commercials. Patience is your strong suit, as you know that, any day, a casting agent will be hiring you for Teen Wolf III.
Ho Ho Ho! You’re big, you’re jolly, and kids around the world love you while parents are divided about your presence. No, you’re not Barney, you’re ol’ Saint Nick! Red is definitely YOUR color as people stop dead in their tracks and take pictures of you on their cell phones. Earn some extra cash around the holidays holding impromptu photo opportunities while precocious kids yank your beard and piss all over your lap. Load up on cheesesteaks and chicken wings all year round, because, as Mrs. Claus says, “No one wants a skinny Santa!”
Oh, I’m sure I left out many other facial hair styles, such as the soul patch, the Clark Gable/Prince-stache, and the high school cafeteria lady flavor-saver, among others, but I had to shave a few of them off to be able to fit this in. Besides, I’m hungry and I need to get something to eat.
I wonder if I have any pudding left…
First, let me say that I have nothing against facial hair. On some people, it completes their face. Have you ever seen someone who had a mustache and/or beard for a long, long time and then one day, it's gone? You know it's them, but half their face is missing. Suddenly, you start to panic and look for the nearest exit while cramming handfuls of Xanax down your throat like they were Skittles. Facial hair gave their heads balance. It's a bit unnerving discovering behind that mighty Zeus beard hides a chin as small, soft and weak as a hamster's ass. My father has such a beard. When it's in full bloom, he looks like the second coming of Ernest Hemingway - full of masculinity and windblown fury. Slap a turtleneck on him and plop him down on a barstool in a seedy Key West dive and even the natives would call him "Papa". When he had the audacity to shave it off one time, he looked like Gepeto - and I don't care how many tattoos, Harleys or enemies's bones you have littering the front yard, Gepeto is about as intimidating as a marshmallow peep.
My family has always had an easy time growing facial hair - even the women (well, not you, Mom, since I know you'll be reading this). My brother, Dave, starting working on his mustache in second grade. I had a more difficult time, as it took years of “pressing it in” and holding up a comb under my nose to see how irresistible I would look with a thick hedge of black hair over my lip. Finally, the day came and I experimented with all manner of facial grooming. Eventually, I settled on the goatee, which, even then, I knew looked ridiculous. My goatee looked like the aftermath of eating a chocolate pudding cup with my hands tied behind my back. Besides, only two types of people wear goatees anymore – bad ass biker types who would just as soon use their grandmother’s asshole as a bottle opener as they would the gaping eye socket of their best friend, and guys who hang around comic book stores, wearing ponytails, memorizing scratching habits of tertiary characters from Star Trek: Deep Space Nine while stuffing an 8-pack of chimichangas down their gullets.
So, if you’ll humor me, I’d like to pay tribute to that guy-est of guy things – facial hair:
Well, we have to start someplace, I guess. For the man who has everything, including comically weird hair and wants to finish off his look with a maw covered in what looks like possessed cotton candy, this dandy little number will have the dinner guests whispering into their whiskey sours and checking their watches. As an added bonus, for those with a modicum of athleticism, you can stand on your head and do an impression of Don King. Was the word “second fiddle” ever more appropriate? For those wishing to ride the coat tails of another and bathe in the warming glow of reflected glory, we offer you the John Oates mustache. Easy to maintain and certain to keep you from climbing the corporate ladder, this beauty will cover that harelip and keep you dateless on those nights spent hanging out at the bus depot.
Power hungry? Syphilis-ridden? Charlie Chaplin fan? Well, do we have the mustache for you! You’ll be singing, “I beg your pardon, I never promised you a beer garden” in less time than it would take Heidi to skip through the Maginot Line. Great for scaring off house guests and nagging relatives, when cornered you can always say you are honoring Moe Howard of the Three Stooges. While they ponder that, you poke them in the eyes and make your getaway.
You’re a man’s man. Hell, you’re a goat’s man. In fact, only the toughest can pull off the permafrost beard like this intrepid adventurer. You don’t mind frozen snot in your whiskers – yours or anyone else’s. Mother Nature is your bitch, and dammit, you’re gonna treat her like one. Finger sandwiches and doilies aren’t your cup of urine. In fact, it’s best if you avoid human contact altogether.
Power hungry? Syphilis-ridden? Charlie Chaplin fan? Well, do we have the mustache for you! You’ll be singing, “I beg your pardon, I never promised you a beer garden” in less time than it would take Heidi to skip through the Maginot Line. Great for scaring off house guests and nagging relatives, when cornered you can always say you are honoring Moe Howard of the Three Stooges. While they ponder that, you poke them in the eyes and make your getaway.You’re a man’s man. Hell, you’re a goat’s man. In fact, only the toughest can pull off the permafrost beard like this intrepid adventurer. You don’t mind frozen snot in your whiskers – yours or anyone else’s. Mother Nature is your bitch, and dammit, you’re gonna treat her like one. Finger sandwiches and doilies aren’t your cup of urine. In fact, it’s best if you avoid human contact altogether.
Go ahead! I’ll let you write this one. You’re suave! You’re cool! You’re unable to raise your eyelids more than a few millimeters. When you tap your filterless Lucky Strike on your gold cigarette case, the room knows you mean business. Bartenders the world over know what you’re drinking as soon as you glide into the room. You favor women in long evening gowns and feathered boas, grabbing them around the waist, pulling them tight and calling them “dames”. You’re a high roller and you pack a mean left. Then you go home to your mom’s basement, order a pizza and play video games until dawn.For the man who has nothing – and likes it that way. Be the first – and likely only – person on your block to sport the Amish corona. Stride confidently through the farmer’s market and raise a barn or two before 8 a.m. It’s just another day in the life for you. Whether your name is Jebediah, Zachariah, Jeremiah or Bucky, this is the look for you. For old school porn fans, nothing beats the glory ‘stache of the infamous Harry Reems. Well, old
Harry has been long forgotten, but his lip hair lives on in the exquisitely styled Tom Selleck offering. Spend hours getting your hair just right? Well, if your hair is who you are, why not accessorize it a bit? Be the talk of the dance floor at the gay disco as you boogie to the sounds of Donna Summer. With a single nod of the head and a gleam in your eye, there’ll be no mistaking that you’re a “top” as you wiggle your bottom. So, there you are. You just struck out the side and now it’s time for some domestic beer and ball-scratchin’ in the clubhouse. A few tokes from a joint in the trainer’s room and 15 minutes later, your Maserati is kicking up roostertails of gravel in the parking lot while Jimi Hendrix sings “Stone Free” from the 8-track. Then, it’s an evening of tequila and shooting birds in the backyard while your old lady, in a methamphetamine daze moans, “Baby, come back to bed” before she vomits into the top drawer of the nightstand. Not for the faint of heart or the boring. The devil made you do it! Whether you’re gathering fresh souls, appearing on the shoulders of people who can’t make up their mind or being mistaken for Salvador Dali, this over-the-top combo will raise Hell with the damnation set. Ideal for those born with cloven feet, the triangular beard provides a nifty yin counterpoint to the yang of your horns. Forever hip to the latest trends, this fashion never goes out of style.
Not a facial hair grower? Wasn’t blessed with the genetic material to pull off a successful mustache? Perhaps you want to take a trial run without committing? Well, we are a full-service operation and we’re here to help. Introducing the Groucho, a grease-based application that takes the risk out of the equation. If you’ve been longing for a Snickers-shaped swath of grease across your face, then maybe the Groucho is for you.
Well, some guys have all the luck. If you are one of those “all-or-nothing” guys, you can’t go wrong here. They’ll be howling from here to London when they see you easing down the street with a massive explosion of testosterone on your face. Bags under the eyes? Gone! Acne? Fuggetaboudit! The moon is always full as folks come up to you and tell you how much they loved you in those Geico commercials. Patience is your strong suit, as you know that, any day, a casting agent will be hiring you for Teen Wolf III.
Ho Ho Ho! You’re big, you’re jolly, and kids around the world love you while parents are divided about your presence. No, you’re not Barney, you’re ol’ Saint Nick! Red is definitely YOUR color as people stop dead in their tracks and take pictures of you on their cell phones. Earn some extra cash around the holidays holding impromptu photo opportunities while precocious kids yank your beard and piss all over your lap. Load up on cheesesteaks and chicken wings all year round, because, as Mrs. Claus says, “No one wants a skinny Santa!”Oh, I’m sure I left out many other facial hair styles, such as the soul patch, the Clark Gable/Prince-stache, and the high school cafeteria lady flavor-saver, among others, but I had to shave a few of them off to be able to fit this in. Besides, I’m hungry and I need to get something to eat.
I wonder if I have any pudding left…
Wednesday, July 04, 2007
Big Shoes to Fill
I have some shocking news. Now, I'm not one to believe in ghosts, UFOs or truly fat-free frozen yogurt, but, I stumbled upon something that has made me re-think all that stuff. At first, I wanted to believe, but as I became older and more cynical, I drifted further away from having faith. Faith in another being. Faith in a greater power. Faith in something where I required physical proof. Now, that faith is restored.
I believe in Bigfoot.
Now, I'm not some run-of-the-mill whack-job conspiracy theorist, but I came across something while walking through the woods one day that certifies my claim. I found his journal. Well, some pages from his journal, at least. From what I could gather, he is left-handed and makes big loops on his lowercase "L"s. The title page, which was the clincher, said:
Name: Bigfoot Hanover
Birthdate: June 3rd
I couldn't make out the rest of the page because it looked like he dropped it in the mud. I couldn't decide what was more curious - that his last name is Hanover or that he is a Gemini. Eventually, I decided that the most interesting thing was that he didn't put his year of birth on the title page, which leads me to believe someone is long-suited in the vanity department. Fortunately, I have some pages that were easy to read, and I'd like to share some of them with you here.
"July 17th - Mood: Contemplative
First day of vacation. Stopped off at mini-mart for powdered donuts. Now I have powder all over me. If they wouldn't makes those things so damned small and easy to eat...Oh well, couldn't get the fire started so ate the Dinty Moore beef stew cold. Good to be out here amongst nature. Lots of bees. I'll write more tomorrow."
"July 19th - Mood: Wiped Out
Meant to get back to this yesterday. Smoked a joint and was singing "Mr. Tamborine Man" was last thing I remember. Woke up half-in/half-out of tent. Had some of Mom's brownies but no milk. Bummed me out. Cheryl's supposed to stop by and she better bring the beer. Last time, she brought Coor's Light and I almost knocked her across the lake. Humidity is a beast today. Thinking I should have got a haircut before I left. Thank God for satellite radio. I'd go nuts without Howard Stern. Wish I brought toilet paper. Using old hot rod magazine. Nap sounds good right about now."
"July 20th - Mood: Pissed Off
Rained last night. Guess who forgot to roll up the windows in the Miata? Can't get cell phone service out here and haven't heard from Cheryl. I THINK I told her I was going to be at this state park. Went fishing and caught nothing. Came back and squirrels were in my food. The Pringles were saved, but the salt & vinegar chips were toast. REALLY regretting not bringing the toilet paper. Have to tune the guitar because the rain warped the neck. Thought I heard something near my tent last night. Had my 5-iron ready to go. Damn, I'd even drink Coor's Light right now."
"July 21st - Mood: Things Looking Up
Watched "Family Guy" on the laptop last night. Cheryl arrived this morning with beer AND toilet paper. What a life saver! Having brie, grapes and pinot noir for lunch. Normally don't drink during the day, and when I do, it's usually a wine cooler or two. Wondering how the guys back in the office are doing. Have to get together with Phil for racquetball next Thursday. Cheryl mentioned something about "our relationship" and "where is it going?" Tuned her out. Told her I'll let her know when we get back. Kept telling me that her eyes were "up here". Wonder how my fantasy baseball team is doing."
"July 23rd - Mood: ?????
This chick is getting on my nerves. Used all my fresh water to wash her hair. Oh, yeah, right, if I only had that luxury out here. Found a tick on my leg and I about freaked. Cheryl wanted to burn it off me. I asked her if she had lost her mind and - get this - SHE got pissed off at ME! Should have dated her sister - she's a Republican. These hippie chicks have too much attitude and always smell like patchouli. Plus, they hardly ever shave their legs. I don't know who's hairier, her or me. Have to give her kudos on the tuna steak, though, and she DID bring out the tequila. Don't know if we're meant to be together, though. I can see it now. The first thing she'll want to do is throw out my Christina Aguiliera posters. What can I say? I dig her music. So sue me. Have to remember to take a look at that condo in town."
"July 24th - Mood: Relaxed
Last day of vacation. Had to get rid of the tangerines. They were getting moldy. Found a spider in the tent and had Cheryl kill it. Good to get back to nature, roughing it like this. My flip-flops smell like smoke. Dig it. Dreading going back to the office. Probably have a thousand emails and I'll bet half of them are jokes from Phil. Need to check eBay for that bike tire. Looking forward to a latte and a cruller. Think I'll put the top down on the Miata. Could swear I heard something in the woods last night. Kind of embarrassed that I woke up and let one rip before I remembered Cheryl was still in the tent. This might be the "out" I was looking for. Be good to sleep in my own bed again."
So, as you can see, Bigfoot is real and he's a savage monster. You won't find me in the woods without a big gun and a pack of angry dogs. Take a tip from me. If you find yourself alone in the woods and you hear something moving in the bushes, make sure you have a roll of toilet paper. It could save your life.
I believe in Bigfoot.
Now, I'm not some run-of-the-mill whack-job conspiracy theorist, but I came across something while walking through the woods one day that certifies my claim. I found his journal. Well, some pages from his journal, at least. From what I could gather, he is left-handed and makes big loops on his lowercase "L"s. The title page, which was the clincher, said:
Name: Bigfoot Hanover
Birthdate: June 3rd
I couldn't make out the rest of the page because it looked like he dropped it in the mud. I couldn't decide what was more curious - that his last name is Hanover or that he is a Gemini. Eventually, I decided that the most interesting thing was that he didn't put his year of birth on the title page, which leads me to believe someone is long-suited in the vanity department. Fortunately, I have some pages that were easy to read, and I'd like to share some of them with you here.
"July 17th - Mood: Contemplative
First day of vacation. Stopped off at mini-mart for powdered donuts. Now I have powder all over me. If they wouldn't makes those things so damned small and easy to eat...Oh well, couldn't get the fire started so ate the Dinty Moore beef stew cold. Good to be out here amongst nature. Lots of bees. I'll write more tomorrow."
"July 19th - Mood: Wiped Out
Meant to get back to this yesterday. Smoked a joint and was singing "Mr. Tamborine Man" was last thing I remember. Woke up half-in/half-out of tent. Had some of Mom's brownies but no milk. Bummed me out. Cheryl's supposed to stop by and she better bring the beer. Last time, she brought Coor's Light and I almost knocked her across the lake. Humidity is a beast today. Thinking I should have got a haircut before I left. Thank God for satellite radio. I'd go nuts without Howard Stern. Wish I brought toilet paper. Using old hot rod magazine. Nap sounds good right about now."
"July 20th - Mood: Pissed Off
Rained last night. Guess who forgot to roll up the windows in the Miata? Can't get cell phone service out here and haven't heard from Cheryl. I THINK I told her I was going to be at this state park. Went fishing and caught nothing. Came back and squirrels were in my food. The Pringles were saved, but the salt & vinegar chips were toast. REALLY regretting not bringing the toilet paper. Have to tune the guitar because the rain warped the neck. Thought I heard something near my tent last night. Had my 5-iron ready to go. Damn, I'd even drink Coor's Light right now."
"July 21st - Mood: Things Looking Up
Watched "Family Guy" on the laptop last night. Cheryl arrived this morning with beer AND toilet paper. What a life saver! Having brie, grapes and pinot noir for lunch. Normally don't drink during the day, and when I do, it's usually a wine cooler or two. Wondering how the guys back in the office are doing. Have to get together with Phil for racquetball next Thursday. Cheryl mentioned something about "our relationship" and "where is it going?" Tuned her out. Told her I'll let her know when we get back. Kept telling me that her eyes were "up here". Wonder how my fantasy baseball team is doing."
"July 23rd - Mood: ?????
This chick is getting on my nerves. Used all my fresh water to wash her hair. Oh, yeah, right, if I only had that luxury out here. Found a tick on my leg and I about freaked. Cheryl wanted to burn it off me. I asked her if she had lost her mind and - get this - SHE got pissed off at ME! Should have dated her sister - she's a Republican. These hippie chicks have too much attitude and always smell like patchouli. Plus, they hardly ever shave their legs. I don't know who's hairier, her or me. Have to give her kudos on the tuna steak, though, and she DID bring out the tequila. Don't know if we're meant to be together, though. I can see it now. The first thing she'll want to do is throw out my Christina Aguiliera posters. What can I say? I dig her music. So sue me. Have to remember to take a look at that condo in town."
"July 24th - Mood: Relaxed
Last day of vacation. Had to get rid of the tangerines. They were getting moldy. Found a spider in the tent and had Cheryl kill it. Good to get back to nature, roughing it like this. My flip-flops smell like smoke. Dig it. Dreading going back to the office. Probably have a thousand emails and I'll bet half of them are jokes from Phil. Need to check eBay for that bike tire. Looking forward to a latte and a cruller. Think I'll put the top down on the Miata. Could swear I heard something in the woods last night. Kind of embarrassed that I woke up and let one rip before I remembered Cheryl was still in the tent. This might be the "out" I was looking for. Be good to sleep in my own bed again."
So, as you can see, Bigfoot is real and he's a savage monster. You won't find me in the woods without a big gun and a pack of angry dogs. Take a tip from me. If you find yourself alone in the woods and you hear something moving in the bushes, make sure you have a roll of toilet paper. It could save your life.
Wednesday, June 20, 2007
My Interview With God
Several weeks ago, I had the opportunity of a lifetime. I was granted an interview with God. Now, I know what you're saying: "Yeah, right. Like God would talk to YOU." Well, he didn't talk TO me - he talked WITH me, and boy, it was nothing like I expected. I received a call about a month ago saying to meet him at Jake's Burgers, which is a local legend for, well, burgers. When I arrived, he was already finishing up a jalapeno burger and kicking it down with a chocolate-vanilla shake and crab fries. He didn't look the way I expected. I mean, the hair and teeth were right on target, but the Ray-Ban aviator shades threw me a bit.
As I walked over the gravel parking lot after getting out of my car, he gave me one of those big arm waves, like he was trying to hail a cab in the rain. I had already eaten, but he pushed the crab fries plate at me and gestured towards the paper cup of wine vinegar. As I reached for my pen and notepad, images of ZZ Top videos ricocheted through my mind. With that, I was ready for the interview of a lifetime...
Me: So...God, what's new?
God: Are you kidding me? You have a chance to talk to the creator of the universe and that's the first thing you can ask me? Why don't you ask me about my son, Jesus? Or what I think of the world's religions? How about my favorite movie?
Me: Ok, what is your favorite movie?
God: The Breakfast Club. I felt I could really relate to those kids.
Me: That wasn't really a serious ques...
God: Although I laughed my ass off watching Blazing Saddles. Do you remember the campfire scene?
Me: It was a classic. So, anyway, God, what motivated you to submit yourself to an interview?
God: I need the publicity.
Me: You? C'mon!
God: It's the truth. With so many people killing and dying in my name, there is a growing segment of the global population that is doubting that I even exist. You know the ones: "How could a wise, all-powerful God allow all of this suffering?"
Me: Well, since the question's on the table...
God: Free will! Free will, man! You think I set you bozos up so I would have to pull your strings 24/7? I have so much more on my plate than man. Ever look outside at night and see the billions and billions of stars?
Me: Yeah.
God: Guess who is responsible for all that? ME! While you're worried about your sickly 401ks and your low-carb diets, I have a freaking universe to run! Not only that, but I have hockey practice Tuesdays, Thursdays and Saturdays.
Me: Must be a real drag.
God: Tell me about it. Hey, toss me one of those Marlboros. I usually smoke Menthol but I forgot to stop by the store on the way here.
Me: So, is Jesus really man's savior? Is he really your son?
God: Do you have kids?
Me: No.
God: Well, let me tell you something about being a single parent. There I am, busting my ass, creating this little universe, with the light and the animals and the plants and all that business, and I basically give it to my kid and tell him to die for man's sins. I mean, it's not like I asked him to cut the grass or clean the pool, which, was a huge waste of money for me since all he did was walk across it. I guess I can't complain. He was a good kid. Never bugged me for money, kind of found his own way, but some days, whoa! it was like he was the anti-Christ...
Me: You mean...?
God: Figure of speech, Einstein. I mean, I love him all right, but's kind of tough when your only son doesn't fight back. I'm sure I don't need to remind you that I'm a pretty tough cat, myself. Here, let me roll up my sleeves. See that? Feel them. Feel those guns.
Me: I'd rather not. Hey, is that a tattoo?
God: Where?
Me: Right there! Does that say "Judas"?
God: Oh, hold on, let me roll it up more. There it is.
Me: Ah! "Judas Priest"! I didn't know you were into metal.
God: I'm not into the hair metal thing, like Poison and Motley Crue. But, I played bass and I can play "Smoke On The Water" from Deep Purple. Thinking about taking up drums.
Me: But, what about the Satanic symbolism in heavy metal music?
God: Please! Have you ever SEEN Satan?
Me: I used to date her.
God: Cut the comedy, kid. Leave it to the pros. Well, Satan doesn't look like what you think he looks like.
Me: What does he look like?
God: He looks like...oh, what's that dude's name? Deezen! Eddie Deezen. He looks like Eddie
Deezen.
As I walked over the gravel parking lot after getting out of my car, he gave me one of those big arm waves, like he was trying to hail a cab in the rain. I had already eaten, but he pushed the crab fries plate at me and gestured towards the paper cup of wine vinegar. As I reached for my pen and notepad, images of ZZ Top videos ricocheted through my mind. With that, I was ready for the interview of a lifetime...
Me: So...God, what's new?
God: Are you kidding me? You have a chance to talk to the creator of the universe and that's the first thing you can ask me? Why don't you ask me about my son, Jesus? Or what I think of the world's religions? How about my favorite movie?
Me: Ok, what is your favorite movie?
God: The Breakfast Club. I felt I could really relate to those kids.
Me: That wasn't really a serious ques...
God: Although I laughed my ass off watching Blazing Saddles. Do you remember the campfire scene?
Me: It was a classic. So, anyway, God, what motivated you to submit yourself to an interview?
God: I need the publicity.
Me: You? C'mon!
God: It's the truth. With so many people killing and dying in my name, there is a growing segment of the global population that is doubting that I even exist. You know the ones: "How could a wise, all-powerful God allow all of this suffering?"
Me: Well, since the question's on the table...
God: Free will! Free will, man! You think I set you bozos up so I would have to pull your strings 24/7? I have so much more on my plate than man. Ever look outside at night and see the billions and billions of stars?
Me: Yeah.
God: Guess who is responsible for all that? ME! While you're worried about your sickly 401ks and your low-carb diets, I have a freaking universe to run! Not only that, but I have hockey practice Tuesdays, Thursdays and Saturdays.
Me: Must be a real drag.
God: Tell me about it. Hey, toss me one of those Marlboros. I usually smoke Menthol but I forgot to stop by the store on the way here.
Me: So, is Jesus really man's savior? Is he really your son?
God: Do you have kids?
Me: No.
God: Well, let me tell you something about being a single parent. There I am, busting my ass, creating this little universe, with the light and the animals and the plants and all that business, and I basically give it to my kid and tell him to die for man's sins. I mean, it's not like I asked him to cut the grass or clean the pool, which, was a huge waste of money for me since all he did was walk across it. I guess I can't complain. He was a good kid. Never bugged me for money, kind of found his own way, but some days, whoa! it was like he was the anti-Christ...
Me: You mean...?
God: Figure of speech, Einstein. I mean, I love him all right, but's kind of tough when your only son doesn't fight back. I'm sure I don't need to remind you that I'm a pretty tough cat, myself. Here, let me roll up my sleeves. See that? Feel them. Feel those guns.
Me: I'd rather not. Hey, is that a tattoo?
God: Where?
Me: Right there! Does that say "Judas"?
God: Oh, hold on, let me roll it up more. There it is.
Me: Ah! "Judas Priest"! I didn't know you were into metal.
God: I'm not into the hair metal thing, like Poison and Motley Crue. But, I played bass and I can play "Smoke On The Water" from Deep Purple. Thinking about taking up drums.
Me: But, what about the Satanic symbolism in heavy metal music?
God: Please! Have you ever SEEN Satan?
Me: I used to date her.
God: Cut the comedy, kid. Leave it to the pros. Well, Satan doesn't look like what you think he looks like.
Me: What does he look like?
God: He looks like...oh, what's that dude's name? Deezen! Eddie Deezen. He looks like Eddie
Deezen.Me: That's hard to believe.
God: Hey, kid, nothing, and I mean NOTHING beats good PR, and Satan is with the best firm around. He uses Tom Cruise's agency.
Me: But people HATE Tom Cruise.
God: Yeah, but he still makes the cover of a half-dozen supermarket tabloids every week, doesn't he?
Me: Point taken. So, when does the world come to an end?
God: Not sure. I have no timeline.
Me: Yeah, but you're God. You must know.
God: Of course I know, but do you think I'm going to tell you? Next thing you know, you're on Oprah, or screaming about the end of the world on some city street corner wearing a sandwich board. Besides, who would believe you?
Me: Well, I have this interview right here.
God: Ok, Sparky, you're going to tell people that you interviewed me on the deck of Jake's Burgers? Get real, man!
Me: Well, does the world end the way Revelation says it is going to end?
God: Man thinks he knows how the world is going to end. He thinks he knows his future in the afterlife and what it will be like. I think that man is in for a surprise. A BIG surprise.
Me: Care to share a little bit more?
God: No. C'mon, man, help me eat these crab fries.
Me: Do you have a message for mankind? Anything I can pass along?
God: Nope. You're on your own. After all, you people wouldn't have it any other way. I gave you free will. I have no interest in controlling mankind. I'm God, not George Steinbrenner.
Me: What about the...
God: The meaning of life? This old chestnut again. The meaning of life is to have a life of meaning, which means, yes, that the meaning of life is different for everyone. Want a tidy answer? There it is, sport. Slap a bow on it.
Me: What do you think of George Carlin saying you don't exist?
God: I hate to beat on the free will drum again, but, y'know... Anyway, I kind of wish I had his audience.
Me: But, don't you have billions of worshippers?
God: Yeah, but he attracts a hipper audience. You won't find the American Gothic crowd at one of his shows. I still get a kick out of his "Seven Dirty Words" routine.
Me: What...
God: Look, Ken...
Me: Kevin
God: Kevin. Whatever. Instead of asking me these tired old stuffy questions, why don't you ask me something fun? 10 questions. Quick, off the top of your head. Go!
Me: Um, what's your favorite color?
God: Sea foam. Did the downstairs bathroom in that color.
Me: Favorite cereal?
God: Peanut Butter Cap'n Crunch. Now you're getting the hang of it.
Me: Favorite album?
God: Pink Floyd's "Wish You Were Here"
Me: I would have thought "Dark Side of the Moon"
God: "Dark Side" is nice to chill to, but, I just learned how to play the opening to "Wish You Were Here" on guitar and I'm wearing out that CD right now. I usually just download off of Limewire, but, you don't get the same fidelity.
Me: Favorite food?
God: I'm a meat and potatoes kind of God, but sometimes all I want are chicken wings. Not too hot, though. I'm also not against eating Beefaroni straight out of the can.
Me: How about..?
God: Oh, and Godiva chocolate. Have you tried the chocolate raspberry?
Me: Favorite TV show?
God: Oooh, that's tough. We only get basic cable, but I just picked up the entire Sopranos series on eBay.
Me: So, do you know how it ends?
God: Of course I know how it ends - I'm God. I can't BELIEVE they copped out with that ending. I thought Tony was going to get whacked, but then I didn't want him to, but part of me still did. I'll never be able to listen to "Don't Stop Believing" without kicking my Playstation across the room.
Me: Ok, last question, but it has five parts: If you could have dinner...
God: With any five people throughout time, who would they be? You know, I always liked this question. Ok, here goes: Spike Lee, Rachael Ray, that Burger King dude, Jimmy Smits and Justin Timberlake.
Me: You've GOT to be kidding me.
God: Nope. Swear-to-Me. Look, I have to roll. Marshall's is having a sale on cargo shorts and we're almost into summer. Anything else you want to ask me?
Me: I'm sure I'll have a lot to ask you in the afterlife when I'm in Heaven.
God: Yeah, ok. Remember what I said about a "BIG surprise". Here, chief, you can pick up the tab. Nice chatting with you. And stop picking your nose in the car. I can see when you do that and we both know you don't wipe it on a tissue.
Me: Thanks, Lord. You're a real peach.
God: Don't mention it. Ever.
God: Hey, kid, nothing, and I mean NOTHING beats good PR, and Satan is with the best firm around. He uses Tom Cruise's agency.
Me: But people HATE Tom Cruise.
God: Yeah, but he still makes the cover of a half-dozen supermarket tabloids every week, doesn't he?
Me: Point taken. So, when does the world come to an end?
God: Not sure. I have no timeline.
Me: Yeah, but you're God. You must know.
God: Of course I know, but do you think I'm going to tell you? Next thing you know, you're on Oprah, or screaming about the end of the world on some city street corner wearing a sandwich board. Besides, who would believe you?
Me: Well, I have this interview right here.
God: Ok, Sparky, you're going to tell people that you interviewed me on the deck of Jake's Burgers? Get real, man!
Me: Well, does the world end the way Revelation says it is going to end?
God: Man thinks he knows how the world is going to end. He thinks he knows his future in the afterlife and what it will be like. I think that man is in for a surprise. A BIG surprise.
Me: Care to share a little bit more?
God: No. C'mon, man, help me eat these crab fries.
Me: Do you have a message for mankind? Anything I can pass along?
God: Nope. You're on your own. After all, you people wouldn't have it any other way. I gave you free will. I have no interest in controlling mankind. I'm God, not George Steinbrenner.
Me: What about the...
God: The meaning of life? This old chestnut again. The meaning of life is to have a life of meaning, which means, yes, that the meaning of life is different for everyone. Want a tidy answer? There it is, sport. Slap a bow on it.
Me: What do you think of George Carlin saying you don't exist?
God: I hate to beat on the free will drum again, but, y'know... Anyway, I kind of wish I had his audience.
Me: But, don't you have billions of worshippers?
God: Yeah, but he attracts a hipper audience. You won't find the American Gothic crowd at one of his shows. I still get a kick out of his "Seven Dirty Words" routine.
Me: What...
God: Look, Ken...
Me: Kevin
God: Kevin. Whatever. Instead of asking me these tired old stuffy questions, why don't you ask me something fun? 10 questions. Quick, off the top of your head. Go!
Me: Um, what's your favorite color?
God: Sea foam. Did the downstairs bathroom in that color.
Me: Favorite cereal?
God: Peanut Butter Cap'n Crunch. Now you're getting the hang of it.
Me: Favorite album?
God: Pink Floyd's "Wish You Were Here"
Me: I would have thought "Dark Side of the Moon"
God: "Dark Side" is nice to chill to, but, I just learned how to play the opening to "Wish You Were Here" on guitar and I'm wearing out that CD right now. I usually just download off of Limewire, but, you don't get the same fidelity.
Me: Favorite food?
God: I'm a meat and potatoes kind of God, but sometimes all I want are chicken wings. Not too hot, though. I'm also not against eating Beefaroni straight out of the can.
Me: How about..?
God: Oh, and Godiva chocolate. Have you tried the chocolate raspberry?
Me: Favorite TV show?
God: Oooh, that's tough. We only get basic cable, but I just picked up the entire Sopranos series on eBay.
Me: So, do you know how it ends?
God: Of course I know how it ends - I'm God. I can't BELIEVE they copped out with that ending. I thought Tony was going to get whacked, but then I didn't want him to, but part of me still did. I'll never be able to listen to "Don't Stop Believing" without kicking my Playstation across the room.
Me: Ok, last question, but it has five parts: If you could have dinner...
God: With any five people throughout time, who would they be? You know, I always liked this question. Ok, here goes: Spike Lee, Rachael Ray, that Burger King dude, Jimmy Smits and Justin Timberlake.
Me: You've GOT to be kidding me.
God: Nope. Swear-to-Me. Look, I have to roll. Marshall's is having a sale on cargo shorts and we're almost into summer. Anything else you want to ask me?
Me: I'm sure I'll have a lot to ask you in the afterlife when I'm in Heaven.
God: Yeah, ok. Remember what I said about a "BIG surprise". Here, chief, you can pick up the tab. Nice chatting with you. And stop picking your nose in the car. I can see when you do that and we both know you don't wipe it on a tissue.
Me: Thanks, Lord. You're a real peach.
God: Don't mention it. Ever.
Saturday, March 31, 2007
April Fool
It's Friday night and here I am, happily filling my gullet with Coke and beef jerky - or petrified horse anus, if you prefer. I was reminded today that I completely took a Mulligan on February, hence ending my consecutive month string of at least one entry. Now I have to start from scratch if I'm ever going to pass Anais Nin for most consecutive months of blogging. I'll also probably need to live far into the 21st century when the polar ice caps will be no larger than the par-4 at your local miniature golf course.
The pressure. It's unbelievable.
As many of you know, we are on the cusp of one of the most useless "holidays" on the calendar. No, I'm not talking about Valentine's Day or Bring Your Mother to Confession Day. I'm talking about April Fool's Day. A little history here...nah, forget it. Suffice to say that we've all fallen prey to some knucklehead screaming "April Fools!" in our faces. The shame registers long enough for them to escape before you can organize your head in order to say, "Ok, now I must kill you." With kids, it's a little trickier. They giggle and snort their way through their joke, and before you can reach for the Ritalin bottle, they drop the punchline and squeal in triumphant delight. Since they're kids, all you can do is smile patronizingly and think, "Ok, I'll wait until you reach 18 and THEN I must kill you - or send you to college on the other side of the country." Then you head out to Barnes & Noble and buy up all the S.A.T. study guides for your precocious 3rd grader.
April Fool's Day is such a slippery beast. If you're like me...God help you. If you're like me, you get up on a typical April 1st, greet the sun with a soft, warm middle finger, go through your routine, get in the car, flip on the radio where the hosts are playing grab-ass with each other and hitting on every female caller when they announce that the listener with the best April Fool's Day story will win backstage passes to whatever members of the Doobie Brothers are alive and playing at the local VFW hall the following weekend. Good times. Then, you get to work, flip on the computer and...completely forget it's April Fool's Day. You log onto you favorite sports chat forum and see a thread entitled, "Cincinnati Reds moving to Havana". Still not aware of the cloud of idiocy that has invaded the weather system above your desk and completely ignoring the ironic Cold War reference to the "Reds" relocating to Cuba, you click on it, ready to throw your mighty two cents into the fray when you discover some wise-ass kid completely owned you the second you clicked on the link. Immediately following the mental wedgie you just endured, you begin to take inventory of all your academic and intellectual awards, scores and platitudes and conclude, "It's official. I'm getting stupider." This, of course, sets off a chain reaction of self-doubt triggered by the question of whether or not "stupider" is a word or if you should have used "more stupid" instead. Naturally, a Battle Royal erupts in your brain, with neurons and synapses and such being cut down like grain. Eventually, a regal, almost Zen-like calm overtakes your senses and you realize it's 11:30.
Maybe April Fool's Day would be worth celebrating if people actually put a little thought into their tricks.
Instead of: "Hey, the boss called and he said he needs the reports by noon instead of next week"
Try: "Hey, a guy on the night cleaning crew was fired today. They just found out he pissed in the coffee maker last night. What's that, your third cup?"
Instead of: "Dude, your mom was hitting on me yesterday"
Try: "Dude, you do realize that you had a snot hanging in your nose the entire time you were talking to that chick, right? Seriously."
Instead of: Telling your buddy you have a tape of you and his girlfriend having sex.
Try: Sending him the tape
Any one of these suggestions is a sure-fire way to lose old friends, make new enemies, and generally make you one of most reprehensible people on the planet.
But, hey, at least you'll have a shot at seeing the Doobie Brothers next year.
The pressure. It's unbelievable.
As many of you know, we are on the cusp of one of the most useless "holidays" on the calendar. No, I'm not talking about Valentine's Day or Bring Your Mother to Confession Day. I'm talking about April Fool's Day. A little history here...nah, forget it. Suffice to say that we've all fallen prey to some knucklehead screaming "April Fools!" in our faces. The shame registers long enough for them to escape before you can organize your head in order to say, "Ok, now I must kill you." With kids, it's a little trickier. They giggle and snort their way through their joke, and before you can reach for the Ritalin bottle, they drop the punchline and squeal in triumphant delight. Since they're kids, all you can do is smile patronizingly and think, "Ok, I'll wait until you reach 18 and THEN I must kill you - or send you to college on the other side of the country." Then you head out to Barnes & Noble and buy up all the S.A.T. study guides for your precocious 3rd grader.
April Fool's Day is such a slippery beast. If you're like me...God help you. If you're like me, you get up on a typical April 1st, greet the sun with a soft, warm middle finger, go through your routine, get in the car, flip on the radio where the hosts are playing grab-ass with each other and hitting on every female caller when they announce that the listener with the best April Fool's Day story will win backstage passes to whatever members of the Doobie Brothers are alive and playing at the local VFW hall the following weekend. Good times. Then, you get to work, flip on the computer and...completely forget it's April Fool's Day. You log onto you favorite sports chat forum and see a thread entitled, "Cincinnati Reds moving to Havana". Still not aware of the cloud of idiocy that has invaded the weather system above your desk and completely ignoring the ironic Cold War reference to the "Reds" relocating to Cuba, you click on it, ready to throw your mighty two cents into the fray when you discover some wise-ass kid completely owned you the second you clicked on the link. Immediately following the mental wedgie you just endured, you begin to take inventory of all your academic and intellectual awards, scores and platitudes and conclude, "It's official. I'm getting stupider." This, of course, sets off a chain reaction of self-doubt triggered by the question of whether or not "stupider" is a word or if you should have used "more stupid" instead. Naturally, a Battle Royal erupts in your brain, with neurons and synapses and such being cut down like grain. Eventually, a regal, almost Zen-like calm overtakes your senses and you realize it's 11:30.
Maybe April Fool's Day would be worth celebrating if people actually put a little thought into their tricks.
Instead of: "Hey, the boss called and he said he needs the reports by noon instead of next week"
Try: "Hey, a guy on the night cleaning crew was fired today. They just found out he pissed in the coffee maker last night. What's that, your third cup?"
Instead of: "Dude, your mom was hitting on me yesterday"
Try: "Dude, you do realize that you had a snot hanging in your nose the entire time you were talking to that chick, right? Seriously."
Instead of: Telling your buddy you have a tape of you and his girlfriend having sex.
Try: Sending him the tape
Any one of these suggestions is a sure-fire way to lose old friends, make new enemies, and generally make you one of most reprehensible people on the planet.
But, hey, at least you'll have a shot at seeing the Doobie Brothers next year.
Thursday, January 18, 2007
Holmes
About 30-some-odd years ago, my brother, Dave, and I were a couple of relatively well-adjusted kids whose parents just so happened to be hippies. Now, if you think THAT sentence was a train wreck, try this on for size: In the early 1970s, Dave and I shared a bedroom and would goof off at night, jumping on the beds, telling stories to each other and plotting each others' demise. The only time Mom or Dad would enter into our room would be to clean it or mete out some home-spun corporal punishment. Well, on this particular night, we heard a knock at the door. From beyond, we could hear our mother ask, "Can I come in?" Dave and I looked at each other incredulously, as if we had the option of saying, "Um, no, come back later and bring the Cherry Hi-C with those cocktail napkins with funny jokes we can't understand." Mom entered gently and elegantly, as only Mom could, and sat down between us on Dave's bed. Then she asked us,
"If you could have anything for Christmas, what would you want?" Dave and I looked at each other behind Mom's back, with big eyes, ready to yell, "A puppy!" But, before we could get the words out, she added,
"..besides a puppy."
Well, hell, woman, why don't you just crush ALL our dreams in one evening? Dave and I just sat there like drunken gargoyle statues. Then she hit us with the whammy:
"You're going to have a little brother."
Hold the phone. I had held the mantle of youngest, and thereby through default, cutest kid in the family. I still had a few years of milking this to go. I'm not giving this new punk a free ride on my coattails. Just who the hell does he think he is? I'm sure Mom offered other dollops of motherly wisdom before she left the room, but I don't remember much else about that night. I do, however, remember that my free ride was about to end.
My grandfather, on Mom's side, went overboard buying things for the soon-to-be-newborn critter, with one major glitch - he was dead-set that Mom was having a girl. You see, my grandfather had four grandchildren - all boys, and he desperately wanted a granddaughter since we boys were a dime-a-dozen. My folks were trying to decide on a name, and for the longest time, I was damned sure they were going to name him Jeremiah, which sent visions of bullfrogs and elderly Mennonites through my 7-year-old brain, or Jeremy - later to be immortalized by Pearl Jam in a song of the same name where a kid loses his crackers and guns down his entire classroom. When the dust settled, it WAS a boy, my grandfather was devastated, and his name? Jason. Aside from being an Argonaut, a Robards and a machete-wielding killing machine from the Friday the 13th movies, what was there not to like?
When we brought him home, he just laid there like a bruise-colored lump in the basinet. But, he had that powdery new-baby smell. You know the smell I'm talking about. There he was, so helpless and tiny...and getting all of the attention from others that had rightfully been mine! As much as I wanted to plot his doom, I simply couldn't because even fresh from the hospital packaging, he was damned adorable.
And it didn't get any better for me. I will go on record as saying that my younger brother, Jason, was probably the single cutest kid in the history of this planet. Please, save yourself the trouble and embarrassment of showing me photos of your kids or grandkids. Stop it. Just stop it. I’m telling you the truth here, so take my word for it – Jason was the cutest kid in the world. You wanted to pick him up and squeeze him like he was going to give juice. Squeeze him hard enough and he would. He had the softest, smilingest cheeks, and great big brown cartoon anime eyes that laughed from across the room as you stuffed your paycheck into his piggy bank. And the hair! The curliest, whispiest collection of brown curls – hair that could have stuffed the bucket seats in God’s dune buggy.
As he grew older, Dave’s interests and my interests tended to veer away from Jason and back onto and into our own lives. Heck, we were adolescents and moving into our teens; by law, we were ordered to be self-indulgent and selfish. Playing Candyland and Sorry! with your little brother wasn’t big on the teenage hit parade. We had more important things to do like throwing crabapples at cars, smoking cigarettes and walking the streets at night complaining about how bored we were. I never knew if my little brother looked up to me. I just knew that he was disappointed when I couldn’t play a game with him. Jason always wanted to learn something new from me and show me new things that he learned himself. I had Dave and Dave had me, if you come right down to it. Jason had no one. Sure, he had some friends in the neighborhood, but on a rainy night, or any night, really, he had no one to play with. That always ate at me. I always wanted to tell him I was sorry, and maybe I did once or twice, but I don’t know if I really knew what I was saying. Dave blazed trails for me as far as meeting new people, playing Little League, getting into some light mischief, but Jason had no one to show him the ropes. I always hated myself for not taking the time to be more involved in his life in his grammar school years.
On the flip side, he was as loyal as the came. Any time we needed a goalie for street hockey, we would put Jason in front of the net as Dave, Ray, Scott and I would drill slap shot after slap shot at him while playing 2-on-2. Invariably, we would have to stop a half dozen times while calming Jason down after a shot would zap him in the coconut or knock him in the ding-ding. After promises of candy afterwards, he could be counted on to wipe the streaks of tears into his dirty cheeks and play on. Another time, Dave received a telephone call from his friend, Fred. Yes, Fred. Like a lot of households, at least back then, parents would think it was cute for the younger kids to answer the phone. It was absolute misery for anyone who happened to call, but you just had to bite the bullet. Jason answered the phone in the kitchen while Mom, Dad and I were in the living room watching television. The next thing we heard was,
“David’s not here, you motherf***er”
I froze. Besides being absolutely hilarious, I knew I was only one little brother confession from being grounded for the rest of my life. You know the drill: Younger child says swear word, parents (correctly) assume child learned word from older sibling. Said sibling never sees light of day again. They pulled Jason into the living room and drilled him mercilessly on where he learned THAT word. Divine providence must have smiled upon me that day – either that or Jason saw my face peering beyond that of my parents, looking like Munsch’s “Scream” character before he offered up his friend, Jackie, as a sacrifice to the foul-mouthed alter. They asked him if he was sure, but Jason stood tall, and said he was sure. I knew I owed him one.
Yes, I owed him one, but time and the fact I WAS an older brother tend to distort things, and being that I was an older brother, when entertainment was lacking, I volunteered the services of my younger brother to steer me through those moments of boredom. There were many times when our folks would go out at night, leaving the three of us to our devices. One of our favorite things was to turn off all the lights so the house was pitch black and wait to hear Jason walking into the room calling for us. Then we’d leap out behind him and scare the caca down his leg. Other times, Jason and I would take turns tying each other to a chair in the basement – the unfinished basement, I might add – I would always easily get out of the knots (believe it or not, it’s a talent I’ve always had), but I could tie the most sadistic knots. After helping him out a few times to gain his trust, I would fashion a particularly nasty set of knots and watch him try to get free. When he gave up, I would walk up the stairs, turn off the lights and make sure he heard me locking the basement door. The screams would be deafening.
But, sadly, that wasn’t the worst thing we did to Jason. The worst thing was when Dave and I went into the washroom with an old t-shirt a butcher knife and some ketchup. Jason and I would be in the other part of the basement – maybe making knots, who knows – while Dave was pouring ketchup all over his shirt and the knife. Then Dave called me to the washroom where we engaged in a mock argument, the result of which was Dave screaming and stumbling out of the washroom with “blood” all over his shirt and collapsing at Jason’s feet after which I came bursting out, “bloody” knife held high, looking at Jason and yelling, “You’re NEXT!”
Folks, I’ve never seen someone lose gravity like I saw my little brother at that moment. After some near-aerobic laughter from Dave and I, we finally let Jason in on the joke, but we never scared him again. We figured he’d had enough. I still feel bad about it today, but only after laughing for a little bit first.
Although his name is Jason, I haven’t called him that for over 25 years. To me, he’s always been “Holmes.” It all started in 1978, the first year of desegregation of the public schools in Delaware. We had African-American kids in our schools already, but we were to have a greater percentage of minorities in our population than we ever experienced. It was a learning experience, and one I’m glad I went through, in retrospect. One of the first things I picked up was how every inner-city kid would call each other “Homes” with the same nonchalance white kids would say, “Dude” or “Man” today. Being white and tragically un-hip, I thought they were saying “Holmes." For some reason, it struck me as hilarious. So, one day at the dinner table, I turned to Jason and said, “Hey, Holmes, pass me the gravy.” He laughed and said, “My name’s not Holmes.” I said it was. Then, he hit me off guard. He said, “If I’m Holmes, who are you?” I said he could call me “Hoss,” like that guy from Bonanza. I have no idea why I said “Hoss.” I have never even seen an episode of Bonanza and probably never will. Well, he called me Hoss from then on and I’ve called him “Jason” probably a half-dozen times since then. He’s always been Holmes to me after that.
Time went on, and Jason grew up…and kept growing and growing, until he could pick Frisbees off the neighborhood roofs. He eventually grew to be 700 feet tall. Swear to God.
Along the way to becoming a teenager, then a young adult, then a man, and now to a father in his mid-30s, he’s gone from being the cutest child in the history of the world to the frail and fragile kid just looking for someone to play with to the cynical young adult with a deep, deep creative streak to a man looking for happiness to a father of three who, despite the otherwise normal harsh realities of the world, has found his happiness in his wife and family.
I remember how I would always try to give him advice in his teenage and young adult years. He didn’t want to hear it. Just because I made certain mistakes didn’t mean he was going to make them. I was trying to help him out the best I could, but, I suppose the best thing I could have done was let him make his own mistakes and just be there if he ever needed me. It turns out he did just fine on his own. He’s going to be all right.
Still, not a week goes by that I don’t wish I had played a game of Candyland with him. Maybe, just maybe, I could have learned something from him instead.
"If you could have anything for Christmas, what would you want?" Dave and I looked at each other behind Mom's back, with big eyes, ready to yell, "A puppy!" But, before we could get the words out, she added,
"..besides a puppy."
Well, hell, woman, why don't you just crush ALL our dreams in one evening? Dave and I just sat there like drunken gargoyle statues. Then she hit us with the whammy:
"You're going to have a little brother."
Hold the phone. I had held the mantle of youngest, and thereby through default, cutest kid in the family. I still had a few years of milking this to go. I'm not giving this new punk a free ride on my coattails. Just who the hell does he think he is? I'm sure Mom offered other dollops of motherly wisdom before she left the room, but I don't remember much else about that night. I do, however, remember that my free ride was about to end.
My grandfather, on Mom's side, went overboard buying things for the soon-to-be-newborn critter, with one major glitch - he was dead-set that Mom was having a girl. You see, my grandfather had four grandchildren - all boys, and he desperately wanted a granddaughter since we boys were a dime-a-dozen. My folks were trying to decide on a name, and for the longest time, I was damned sure they were going to name him Jeremiah, which sent visions of bullfrogs and elderly Mennonites through my 7-year-old brain, or Jeremy - later to be immortalized by Pearl Jam in a song of the same name where a kid loses his crackers and guns down his entire classroom. When the dust settled, it WAS a boy, my grandfather was devastated, and his name? Jason. Aside from being an Argonaut, a Robards and a machete-wielding killing machine from the Friday the 13th movies, what was there not to like?
When we brought him home, he just laid there like a bruise-colored lump in the basinet. But, he had that powdery new-baby smell. You know the smell I'm talking about. There he was, so helpless and tiny...and getting all of the attention from others that had rightfully been mine! As much as I wanted to plot his doom, I simply couldn't because even fresh from the hospital packaging, he was damned adorable.
And it didn't get any better for me. I will go on record as saying that my younger brother, Jason, was probably the single cutest kid in the history of this planet. Please, save yourself the trouble and embarrassment of showing me photos of your kids or grandkids. Stop it. Just stop it. I’m telling you the truth here, so take my word for it – Jason was the cutest kid in the world. You wanted to pick him up and squeeze him like he was going to give juice. Squeeze him hard enough and he would. He had the softest, smilingest cheeks, and great big brown cartoon anime eyes that laughed from across the room as you stuffed your paycheck into his piggy bank. And the hair! The curliest, whispiest collection of brown curls – hair that could have stuffed the bucket seats in God’s dune buggy.
As he grew older, Dave’s interests and my interests tended to veer away from Jason and back onto and into our own lives. Heck, we were adolescents and moving into our teens; by law, we were ordered to be self-indulgent and selfish. Playing Candyland and Sorry! with your little brother wasn’t big on the teenage hit parade. We had more important things to do like throwing crabapples at cars, smoking cigarettes and walking the streets at night complaining about how bored we were. I never knew if my little brother looked up to me. I just knew that he was disappointed when I couldn’t play a game with him. Jason always wanted to learn something new from me and show me new things that he learned himself. I had Dave and Dave had me, if you come right down to it. Jason had no one. Sure, he had some friends in the neighborhood, but on a rainy night, or any night, really, he had no one to play with. That always ate at me. I always wanted to tell him I was sorry, and maybe I did once or twice, but I don’t know if I really knew what I was saying. Dave blazed trails for me as far as meeting new people, playing Little League, getting into some light mischief, but Jason had no one to show him the ropes. I always hated myself for not taking the time to be more involved in his life in his grammar school years.
On the flip side, he was as loyal as the came. Any time we needed a goalie for street hockey, we would put Jason in front of the net as Dave, Ray, Scott and I would drill slap shot after slap shot at him while playing 2-on-2. Invariably, we would have to stop a half dozen times while calming Jason down after a shot would zap him in the coconut or knock him in the ding-ding. After promises of candy afterwards, he could be counted on to wipe the streaks of tears into his dirty cheeks and play on. Another time, Dave received a telephone call from his friend, Fred. Yes, Fred. Like a lot of households, at least back then, parents would think it was cute for the younger kids to answer the phone. It was absolute misery for anyone who happened to call, but you just had to bite the bullet. Jason answered the phone in the kitchen while Mom, Dad and I were in the living room watching television. The next thing we heard was,
“David’s not here, you motherf***er”
I froze. Besides being absolutely hilarious, I knew I was only one little brother confession from being grounded for the rest of my life. You know the drill: Younger child says swear word, parents (correctly) assume child learned word from older sibling. Said sibling never sees light of day again. They pulled Jason into the living room and drilled him mercilessly on where he learned THAT word. Divine providence must have smiled upon me that day – either that or Jason saw my face peering beyond that of my parents, looking like Munsch’s “Scream” character before he offered up his friend, Jackie, as a sacrifice to the foul-mouthed alter. They asked him if he was sure, but Jason stood tall, and said he was sure. I knew I owed him one.
Yes, I owed him one, but time and the fact I WAS an older brother tend to distort things, and being that I was an older brother, when entertainment was lacking, I volunteered the services of my younger brother to steer me through those moments of boredom. There were many times when our folks would go out at night, leaving the three of us to our devices. One of our favorite things was to turn off all the lights so the house was pitch black and wait to hear Jason walking into the room calling for us. Then we’d leap out behind him and scare the caca down his leg. Other times, Jason and I would take turns tying each other to a chair in the basement – the unfinished basement, I might add – I would always easily get out of the knots (believe it or not, it’s a talent I’ve always had), but I could tie the most sadistic knots. After helping him out a few times to gain his trust, I would fashion a particularly nasty set of knots and watch him try to get free. When he gave up, I would walk up the stairs, turn off the lights and make sure he heard me locking the basement door. The screams would be deafening.
But, sadly, that wasn’t the worst thing we did to Jason. The worst thing was when Dave and I went into the washroom with an old t-shirt a butcher knife and some ketchup. Jason and I would be in the other part of the basement – maybe making knots, who knows – while Dave was pouring ketchup all over his shirt and the knife. Then Dave called me to the washroom where we engaged in a mock argument, the result of which was Dave screaming and stumbling out of the washroom with “blood” all over his shirt and collapsing at Jason’s feet after which I came bursting out, “bloody” knife held high, looking at Jason and yelling, “You’re NEXT!”
Folks, I’ve never seen someone lose gravity like I saw my little brother at that moment. After some near-aerobic laughter from Dave and I, we finally let Jason in on the joke, but we never scared him again. We figured he’d had enough. I still feel bad about it today, but only after laughing for a little bit first.
Although his name is Jason, I haven’t called him that for over 25 years. To me, he’s always been “Holmes.” It all started in 1978, the first year of desegregation of the public schools in Delaware. We had African-American kids in our schools already, but we were to have a greater percentage of minorities in our population than we ever experienced. It was a learning experience, and one I’m glad I went through, in retrospect. One of the first things I picked up was how every inner-city kid would call each other “Homes” with the same nonchalance white kids would say, “Dude” or “Man” today. Being white and tragically un-hip, I thought they were saying “Holmes." For some reason, it struck me as hilarious. So, one day at the dinner table, I turned to Jason and said, “Hey, Holmes, pass me the gravy.” He laughed and said, “My name’s not Holmes.” I said it was. Then, he hit me off guard. He said, “If I’m Holmes, who are you?” I said he could call me “Hoss,” like that guy from Bonanza. I have no idea why I said “Hoss.” I have never even seen an episode of Bonanza and probably never will. Well, he called me Hoss from then on and I’ve called him “Jason” probably a half-dozen times since then. He’s always been Holmes to me after that.
Time went on, and Jason grew up…and kept growing and growing, until he could pick Frisbees off the neighborhood roofs. He eventually grew to be 700 feet tall. Swear to God.
Along the way to becoming a teenager, then a young adult, then a man, and now to a father in his mid-30s, he’s gone from being the cutest child in the history of the world to the frail and fragile kid just looking for someone to play with to the cynical young adult with a deep, deep creative streak to a man looking for happiness to a father of three who, despite the otherwise normal harsh realities of the world, has found his happiness in his wife and family.
I remember how I would always try to give him advice in his teenage and young adult years. He didn’t want to hear it. Just because I made certain mistakes didn’t mean he was going to make them. I was trying to help him out the best I could, but, I suppose the best thing I could have done was let him make his own mistakes and just be there if he ever needed me. It turns out he did just fine on his own. He’s going to be all right.
Still, not a week goes by that I don’t wish I had played a game of Candyland with him. Maybe, just maybe, I could have learned something from him instead.
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